Saturday, June 16, 2012

And Yet Another Email

This time from a Brenda...

This was the email that was sent to me...

I cant believe you would say this to another person. I know Angela did not deserve your hate mail. This is being sent to Provocraft. I'm sure they will not want someone like you to be representing them. So sad, how can you hate someone that you don't even know? Plus, to treat your readers like this? Oh they are going to know.


This is being posted everywhere to show you are a true bully!!!! SICK!!!!
And this was my reply...

I don't represent Provocraft. I don't work for any companies nor am I on any design teams and I don't sell products, services or anything else for any company. As for Provocraft...well sweetie they are already aware of the situation and know that is not my style of writing or communicating.

Your empty threats do not scare me. I have nothing to fear or lose in this situation. I don't try to sell products, I don't care if any one reads my blog, I blog for me not because I want people to like me, although they do and I often ask them why...I have said that many times on my blog and my readers know it. You can't slander me because too many people know the REAL ME.

I don't care how many people you want to be and email me as because it doesn't bother me. I will just keep posting it all to my blog and on facebook.

Oh and if you want to post it everywhere I don't mind. All I ask is that you send me the links because I would love to see it!!

Have a great night!

Now I am hurt, because if she truly read my blog she would know I tell ya'll all the time I don't give a crap if anyone reads the drivel I write and that I blog for me. Heck I even tell ya'll not to follow me! HA HA HA

Now on a more serious note...I had a friend contact me on Facebook asking me to be careful as she is concerned for my welfare in this situation. I responded with "that is exactly why I am being so open with everything. She threatens others of how she is going to ruin them. I am posting and documenting everything on here, my email and my website. I will not cower like she has made others and if she wants to show up in my town, well...that would not be a good idea for her." And by that I mean I have no problems pressing charges on someone who is wanting to cause me harm.

You guys are all my witnesses to what is going on. If you think I am posting too much drama on here then I ask that you come back at a later date because I am going to continue to document what is going on. Like I stated to my friend, I will not cower down.
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32 comments:

  1. AndreaAJune 16, 2012 at 1:17 AM

    She won't quit will she!!!! LOL

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  2. Bernie SimmonsJune 16, 2012 at 2:11 AM

    She wont Quit that is my point Okie.....And yes I want you to take care. You can NAME me. I'm the friend urging you to be careful. I really think the paranoia this woman has and the capacity for causing trouble is a bad mixture.

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  3. eiyiyiJune 16, 2012 at 6:03 AM

    And again I say, Holy Spit! I can't believe this woman. If she's going to put words in your mouth, or on an email, she could at least try to use ones you might use. This is so bizarre.

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  4. MonaJune 16, 2012 at 6:13 AM

    Some people just hate themselves so much, that they have to create drama to feel good about themselves. Love the way you are handling this! If you need a witness, I will gladly witness you!!!

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  5. CarolJune 16, 2012 at 6:22 AM

    Shirley, I have some concerns too. Yes, I know you are a big girl, and YES, I know that you are perfectly capable of handling the situation and taking care of yourself ... and NO, I do not want to see you back down or "cower" to anyone.

    HOWEVER ... This Angela person is not stable and is clearly intent to do you harm. You never know what lurks in the mind of an unstable person and/or what lengths they will go. She is a dangerous person.

    I think you are wise to openly post what is happening ... In fact, I think you should also report her. Perhaps to her online service provider? Maybe the companies she is doing business with? Is there a law enforcement agency that handles issues of this type?

    Even as I type this, I know that is not your style and you are likely laughing at me. But still, I worry. I do hope you will be cautious and TAKE CARE OF YOU.

    Hugz GF
    Carol

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  6. Creando Con DetallesJune 16, 2012 at 7:20 AM

    Trust me she will not quit. She tries to tell her sponsors the opposite she will alter documents to make it look like its you and play the innocent victim. She is aka BRENDA SMITH and Kim Harrison. She creates fake accounts in order to get informtion on people.

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  7. CrystalJune 16, 2012 at 7:32 AM

    I had a neighbor like this once. She was telling people I wanted her husband and I was provoking him sexually. I never spoke to the man...not once. She told people that I posed nude for magazines. LOL Some people are not happy unless they are causing others drama. This woman needs help as she doesnt have a life and is seriously demented. Take care Okie...we are behind you 100%

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  8. Sandie OxleyJune 16, 2012 at 7:37 AM

    Nicely said Okie....that should get her stomping her feet.....lol

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  9. Sandie OxleyJune 16, 2012 at 7:39 AM

    Nicely said Okie! !!!!

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  10. paulahJune 16, 2012 at 8:41 AM

    okie keep posting and be careful i work in a psych facility and this woman appears to have some serious issues

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  11. UnknownJune 16, 2012 at 9:40 AM

    Okie there is no doubt in my mind that you can take care of yourself, but please be careful as she sounds a little whacko! Kudos to you for not backing down and doing what you know is right!

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  12. Kim G,June 16, 2012 at 9:55 AM

    Okie, OMG - I never knew that crafters could be so hateful! Keep the faith and be careful. Your followers love your work AND YOUR COMMENTARY! We can always trust you to be honest with us. Thanks for that!

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  13. MorganJune 16, 2012 at 9:57 AM

    Good for you Okie! If a person doesn't stand for something they will fall for anything. It appears that the other person is the one bullying...not you. :) Be Safe. Prayers Up ;)

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  14. AnonymousJune 16, 2012 at 10:04 AM

    You go girl! I love your blog. These others obviously have too much time on their hands and take joy in being nasty.
    Barb

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  15. JoyJune 16, 2012 at 10:05 AM

    I am so sorry you are having as uch issues. I do not know you personally, but thru your blog and other postings, you seem like a great person with a wonderful heart. Some of those last cards though . . . Oh my. :)

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  16. Lynn B.June 16, 2012 at 10:12 AM

    This is all unnerving to say the least. The email sounded nothing like you've ever written here, and anyone who has followed you for any length of time knows that. Good luck.

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  17. AnonymousJune 16, 2012 at 10:19 AM

    It's really hard to reason with crazy. I think you are doing the right thing exposing her for what she is but I do agree to be careful. Watch your Facebook and Blogger closely, because this girl is obviously mentally unstable.

    Also, I you're going to doctor an email, at least make it believable crazy woman! "You haven't done anything to me, I just hate you". Riiiiight...

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  18. RebeccaCJune 16, 2012 at 10:53 AM

    Just imagine how many cards and layouts she could be creating with all of this time she is devoting to you, Okie!

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  19. AnonymousJune 16, 2012 at 10:58 AM

    Okie take care, she sounds off her rocker. And I for one and glad to be one of your followers. love ya laura D.

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  20. WendeJune 16, 2012 at 12:17 PM

    Something terrible must have happened to this woman during adolescence to completely stunt her emotional growth. She obviously is conducting herself in a manner that more like that of a ten year old. She knows she is wrong, but lacks the character and maturity to stop. She is irrational and as Carol said dangerous, as she continues to make decisions that are harmful even to herself. Do be careful and continue to expose her, that is your best bet on handling her. I am not familiar with her, but am glad to have the heads up. Thanks for sharing and I began following you years ago, not only for the unique and creative crafting, but for the tongue in cheek honesty and love the pours into each and everyone of your posts. This is supposed to be fun, doing and sharing our love of paper crafting. If you can't play nice, GO AWAY!!!!

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  21. AnonymousJune 16, 2012 at 1:05 PM

    Okie please be careful she does sound off and w/ people like that you just never know!! take care and keep posting - i agree with you this way everything is out and she can't twist it to suit her needs @ the time we support and love you :) Debbie

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  22. Miss SakJune 16, 2012 at 2:52 PM

    It's insane how many people (how how much one person is) are willing to jump down your throat (especially when they don't know you) and accuse you of the very thing they are doing.

    I have always admired how strong and fierce of a person you are but I'm also worried too. I hope that new genuine fans are not put off by this drama because your work and your charisma are fantastic!

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  23. DarleneJune 16, 2012 at 3:04 PM

    wow! I've been out of the loop for a few days and come back to a whole butt load of drama. This woman is a piece of work!

    Darlene

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  24. Kelly KreatesJune 16, 2012 at 6:08 PM

    1st and foremost, take care of you! And I'm sitting here laughing (because this lady sounds CRAZY) - but I'm sure you're keeping a good sense of humor about it. Hang in there.

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  25. AnonymousJune 16, 2012 at 8:08 PM

    This lady is a couple marbles short of being admitted to the "loony bin."

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  26. scrapaholicjenJune 17, 2012 at 2:00 AM

    OMG Okie that nutjob is whacked! Unbelievable! I would be sleeping with one eye open, but you are much braver than I LOL. You can come hide out with me for a while, she probably would not be allowed across the border. :-)

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  27. BrigitteJune 17, 2012 at 10:41 AM

    Way to go Okie!!!! I'm behind you 100% and we like you because you're fun and quirky!!! Big hugs, Brigitte

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  28. ClaudiaJune 17, 2012 at 2:54 PM

    Okie, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I've been an e-mail subacriber for ages and know how you talk (write). No one who knows you would believe for an instant that you wrote that nonsense. You hang in there! Love ya.
    claudiamatzke at hotmail dot com

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  29. AnonymousJune 17, 2012 at 9:09 PM

    Shirley, I read your blog almost daily and I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all this drama. I'm sad that grown ups are behaving this way and that you have to deal with this at our age. Please be careful.

    Dorcas
    www.craftycardangel.com

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  30. JoannaJune 18, 2012 at 10:05 AM

    I'm sorry this is happening to you. I don't have time to be into cyber crafting, so I just following a few paper crafting blogs that I like and I like yours. However, I have to say I'm getting a kick out of these cyber cat wars. Honestly, though after awhile I'll just stop reading the muck. Good luck!

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  31. Jodie RJune 18, 2012 at 9:40 PM

    Okie, remember that woman that drove across country in a diaper to do, well, who knows what to that other woman? They do exist, but she'd have to be nuts to come looking for you anyway. Lol!!!

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  32. BrendaJune 19, 2012 at 1:52 PM

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